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Suspended Disbelief

There is something wonderful about this time of year. The weather feels fresh, it’s back to school, and it feels like anything is possible. In fact, it was this time four years ago that I started Clear Strategy Coaching. Right before the October 2008 crash. Oops! I remember so clearly that my wonderful coach, Ron …

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Expanding Your Influence

I recently had a realization.  Less of an Oprah moment and more of a long, slow turn on a country road.  In other words, hard-earned.  I realized that the vision I had for myself over the next few years was based on outside markers of success, not on my own.  The vision was impressive, “important,” …

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A Job with Purpose

“I want to have meaning in my work.”  It’s something I hear a lot as a coach.  Most of us want to have a sense of purpose, and to feel like we are recognized for it.  As it turns out, this is no small request.  Dan Pink identifies purpose as one of three key factors …

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Getting Unstuck

There are two kinds of “being stuck” I commonly see in my work.  Both are important to know about. Chronic, cyclical stuckness.  This is the kind of being stuck that goes on for years.  It is typically around something that you want, but just don’t go for.  And unlike moving forward, where you want something …

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Affirmations

“I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggonit, people like me!” Who doesn’t chuckle when you think of Stuart Smalley.  Affirmations can sound funny, but they are a powerful tool.  They can be used to change the way others view us, to push us to perform in our areas of strength, or to bring awareness …

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Girls Will Be Girls

Yesterday I attended a six-year old “Eloise at the Plaza” birthday with my daughter.  While I wouldn’t want her to think every day is like that, I found it fun, charming, and surprisingly gracious.  Nevertheless, there was one moment when I found myself stifling a very self-conscious belly laugh —  the moment seemed almost surreal.  …

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Community and Rituals

This weekend I attended a six-year old birthday with my daughter.  All of the usual things were there — pin the tail on the donkey, cake, goodie bags.  But there was something special about this one.  The parents were really present; the prep was done and they were calm and available.  They created the party …

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Women’s Networks

I found this week’s New York Times article, “The Spirit of Sisterhood is in the Air and on the Air” quite interesting in the context of today’s work world.  According to the article, women thrive when we are collaborative and support one another.  In fact, from this approach, we are the glue of society. That support …

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Macchiato and Personal Leadership

This past week, on vacation in Virginia, I asked for a macchiato at a Starbucks. We were starting a long drive and had had a big lunch, so espresso with a small splash of milk seemed just right. What I got instead was a 16oz. cafe latte with an ounce of caramel syrup, topped with …

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