Two of my clients are facing strong headwinds. One is negotiating a high profile promotion; the other a senior role at a new organization. You could argue that the headwinds are strong because the situations are high stakes. I would argue that the stronger headwinds are internal. And both are asking for what I hear …
The Power of Peace: A New Year’s Reflection
Shalom, peace be with you, assalamu alaikum, namaste, amituofo. There’s a universal beauty in wishing peace to others. Across cultures and languages, this gesture carries the potential to transform not only relationships but also workplaces. Why does peace matter so much? It shifts mindsets. When we genuinely wish peace for others, we extend an invitation …
Lead with Levity — Not Perfection
Lead with Levity – Not Perfection Executive presence tells you that you have to “look the part” to be taken seriously as a leader. I used to believe that too — until I got fired. Getting fired taught me that real confidence doesn’t come from having the “right” job. It comes from getting OK with …
The Smart Leader’s Year End Review
When you live in New York City, Christmas doesn’t just arrive — it descends. The crowds, the suitcases on the subway, the holidays lights and music. It’s a lot. But here’s the thing: If you’re smart about your career (and I know you are), you know that sometimes the most powerful move is to step back and reflect. Not …
From Dream to Reality: The Journey of Writing Confidence at Work
There’s a big difference between thinking about writing a book and actually writing one. I can now say I’ve done both. I was never a person who wanted to write a book. But I did have the sense that what I was teaching, to individuals and groups, could reach a broader audience. And …
From Dream to Reality: The Journey of Writing Confidence at Work Read More »
Are You Building the Right Kind of Resilience?
Resilience. It’s a word we hear all the time—but have you ever thought about what it really means for your career? A client recently shared with me how much she’s been struggling to “bounce back.” Her team was laid off a few years ago, and since then, she hasn’t felt the same sense of footing …
Connection at the Holidays?
The holidays are full of “shoulds” around connection and love. But a comment on-line the other day got me thinking. “The novelty of WFM is wearing thin,” this person said. It’s true. We’ve gotten used to doing things our own way the last few years. Which can bring an extra little does of overwhelm at …
Why TED Talks Won’t Build Your Career
The Secret to Career Confidence Isn’t What You Think I’ve been there too. You hear a TED Talk or attend a conference and everything clicks. You’re inspired! But then reality sets in, and you’re left wondering, How do I actually use this? Like a diet trend, single ideas can feel productive in the short term, …
Laid-off and Confused? Restless? Check out my Post Covid Career Recovery series
Laid-off and Confused? Restless? Check out my Post Covid Career Recovery series So far it’s been an interesting fall. I’m seeing trends this fall that stand out, even in the 16 years I’ve been coaching. I’m seeing high-achievers who are being laid off for the first time and are super confused and disoriented. I’m …
Laid-off and Confused? Restless? Check out my Post Covid Career Recovery series Read More »
Fact or Fantasy? – The Harder You Work, the Luckier You Get
Do you want more recognition at work? And think that the way to get it is by working harder or getting more credentials? You may be on the right track, or you may be on a path to overwork, resentment and burnout. Let me share two perspectives about hard work: Recognition and …
Fact or Fantasy? – The Harder You Work, the Luckier You Get Read More »